Karen Meiring de Gonzalez is an internationally qualified skin therapist, the owner of Skin Correctives, ABIC Councillor, and founder of What Women Want.
My mother was the perfect role model for unconditional love, showing me how to care deeply without judgment, with endless patience and resilience. Her support gave me strength and stability through a strict and challenging upbringing. Beyond my mother, I’ve been shaped by countless women I’ve met—from colleagues on cruise ships to clients, and women in our community and skin industry. I don’t believe in a single role model; instead, I’m inspired by the grace, courage, determination, and kindness I see in many women. It’s not about perfection but recognising the strengths we all have. These women continue to teach me and help me grow, and for that, I’m endlessly grateful.
Growing up under strict rules about being ‘good’ left me questioning my identity. Exploring who I was often brought joy but also guilt, as I felt I was falling short of expectations. Over time, I learned that letting go of unnecessary rules and judgment—of myself and others—makes life richer and more fulfilling. I aspire to uplift others, whether by helping clients feel confident, supporting my team, or being a role model for my children. I want to show them that challenges don’t define us and that we can live meaningful lives despite obstacles. I’m still a work in progress, but every experience has taught me something valuable. I strive to live authentically, keep learning, and approach life with kindness and purpose.
As a skin therapist and electrologist, I’ve connected with women on a personal level, hearing their stories and witnessing their inner strength. Those women are often courageous, strong, resilient, and selfless. I see them display remarkable strength and adaptability, whether facing illness, challenges, or balancing work and family. From working with women around the world to those in my community and industry, one common thread is their willingness to support one another.
Women form ‘tribes’ of empathy and encouragement, creating a ripple effect of kindness. Their compassion and determination inspire me every day. Networking groups like Illawarra Women in Business are about building authentic relationships. For me, it’s about finding common ground, learning from others, and offering mutual support. They create a space to connect with the real women behind the businesses—their stories, challenges, and passions—which adds depth to these connections.
During the COVID pandemic, I witnessed incredible camaraderie, particularly in the skin and beauty industry, with women checking in, sharing advice, and supporting one another. These groups remind us that we’re not alone and that success is rarely straightforward. Women juggle many roles, and networking groups provide understanding, collaboration, and inspiration. They empower women to connect, grow, and support one another, fostering a sense of community that benefits everyone involved.
For my staff and for my clients, I aim to create a space where women feel supported, valued, and empowered. Whether helping a client regain confidence or guiding a team member to grow, I want everyone to feel capable of becoming their best selves. I’ve seen young women develop skills and confidence, often achieving more than they expected. Collaboration and mutual learning make this work so rewarding. I also recognise not everyone is the right fit for the journey and letting them go gracefully allows them to find their own path. I want my team to feel valued and my clients to leave confident and cared for.
Supporting clients transitioning from male to female has been one of the most humbling parts of my career. These women demonstrate extraordinary courage as they embark on a deeply emotional journey to align their external selves with their true identity, often facing the heartbreaking choice between living authentically or not living at all. As an electrologist, I’ve provided permanent hair removal for over three decades—a vital step in their transition. These sessions often become spaces of support and understanding, where I’ve listened to their stories of resilience and determination, leaving a profound impact on me. This work has taught me the importance of creating a safe, respectful space where clients feel valued for who they are. It’s been a privilege to support these women and learn from their strength, authenticity, and bravery.
Working with women of all ages is a privilege and constant source of inspiration. Grandmothers bring wisdom and resilience, focusing on what matters most, though they remind me of the importance of self-care. Women in their middle years are determined and resourceful, balancing careers, families, and growth, while teaching the value of pausing and letting go of perfection. Young adults are bold and confident, challenging norms and setting boundaries, though they highlight the need for balance and flexibility. And adolescents are curious and passionate, reminding me to stay open to change and new possibilities. Each generation offers unique strengths that inspire me to learn and grow.
My motto? ‘Work with what you’ve got.’ Life is about embracing your reality, improving what you can, and building on your strengths to become your best self. It’s a constant work in progress, and the key is to keep learning and growing. Focus on what you can control, work on your part, and let go of what’s beyond your control.
You won’t be everyone’s cup of tea, and that’s okay. Find those who uplift you and value your contribution, while accepting and not judging others. Every connection can teach us something if we stay open. This motto is a reminder to live authentically, with resilience and self-awareness. Work with what you’ve got, and you’ll be amazed at what you can achieve.
Interview: Hannah Gay | Photography: Supplied
This article originally appeared in the Issue 01 2025 print issue of Professional Beauty magazine. Read it here.
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